Self Help Lifestyle

Things you shouldn’t care in order to live a happy life

things you shouldn't care about in order to live a happy life

People are depressed and mental health of people is affecting day by day. In this fast and opinionated world, it has become hard to be happy but there are still ways in which you can live a carefree life. In this article, I’ll jot down a list of things you shouldn’t care in order to live a happy life.

Less Social Media and more real-life conversations

In today’s world of likes and comments, we are always seeking approvals of others and showcasing our life online and totally forgot how real-life experiences are. You shouldn’t care about these things if you want to live a happy life. You are beautiful and perfect in your own way and you don’t an application or social media network to tell you by the number of likes you get on your photos. The people who love you are with you and they will always appreciate you. Have small moments of happiness like going for a walk to your local park, having coffee at your favorite place with your best friend and playing your favorite board game with the family. Detox yourself from social media if you want a happy life, try it for a week and you will see instant results.

Take a vacation and go alone, sometimes solitude is the best Remedy

Go camping and take your favorite book with you. Read in nature’s beauty and let your mind and thoughts roam carefreely. Take some time off from your hectic job and spend that time in camping, hiking and exploring new places. Solitude will help you to focus on the mistakes you made and how to avoid them in the future, also it will be great for your mental health. You don’t have to care what happens behind if you want to live a happy life. Take risks, go for skydiving or deep-sea diving because it’s important to enjoy life see life for what it is and appreciate this life. There is no time or age limit to enjoy life. The bucket list you made needs to be fulfilled now.

We become what we think 

Do you ever wonder why is there so much negativity around you? Are you a negative person? Why is this? Why you became so negative over time that you cannot appreciate the positivity in life. Negativity sucks the soul out of you and you can never feel happy again. Negative people are left alone who no one wants to spend time with. Try to appreciate little things in life. Avoid negative people at all costs, whether they are at work or at home. Let yourself surrounded with people who appreciate you and appreciate life, be with the happy faces who value life. Things you shouldn’t care are the opinions of negative people about you for living a happy life.

What will people say?

What will people say? has killed a lot of dreams. Why should we care about the opinions of others and affect our lives with it? Don’t let the opinion of others have a say about what you do in life, do what you want and follow your dream. Want to be a singer or ballet dancer? Go for it. Don’t let someone tell you how you will fail or what will your family say, No! Just follow your dream and don’t care about failing. Fail and learn from your mistakes and fail again, pick yourself up and fight and one day you will achieve your dream. What if you fail and couldn’t make your dream come true at least you won’t regret it. The most important things you shouldn’t care about.

Being Perfect

You don’t have to perfect at everything. Everyone is born different and that’s your personality. Never care about being perfect. You have your own personality and people who are sincere to you will appreciate you with all your imperfections. In order to achieve perfection, we lose our personality and individual selves along the way. It is the real tragedy today, everyone wants perfection and no one is happy with their different self. Being perfect is one of the things you shouldn’t care in order to live a happy life.


Life is short and to have the best experience of life is to be happy about what little good things it offers. Face your problems and don’t run away from them. There is no tomorrow, do it today. Never allow someone’s opinion or gossip to occupy your mind. Think freely and heal your mental health. In his poem Invictus, William Ernest Henley says

Out of the night that covers me,
      Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
      For my unconquerable soul.
In the fell clutch of circumstance
      I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
      My head is bloody, but unbowed.
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
      Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
      Finds and shall find me unafraid.
It matters not how strait the gate,
      How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
      I am the captain of my soul.

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